I seem to be hearing more conversations like this. “That driver just flipped me off because I tapped the horn. Would he have preferred I let him hit me?” Or, “I turned a corner at the market and didn’t see her, until she yelled at me about being rude. I simply didn’t see her.”
Instead of focusing on the above, I have also been the recipient of some very nice words. A family friend said my blogs have meaning for her. She finds value in what I say. My beautiful daughter-in-law called me yesterday just to say she was thinking about me and loves me.
While I was listening to some friends last night talk about the lack of respect and complete disregard for others I shared some of the nice conversations I had been exposed to.
The mood of the group changed. We all went from telling annoying stories of people to positive ones. We all went from complaining to complimenting. The mood of the room went from a downhill spiral to a feeling of elevation.
|Is your mood going up or down today?|
My thoughts these past few weeks have been taken with the very thought of simple kindness, sharing positive thoughts, and complimenting others.
Anger and aggression is contagious. Just think of mob rule. Equally as contagious is a smile and a laugh. If you had a choice of whom you would want to spend time with? A grumpy old…. Or a giggling baby…
Which would it be?
Which one are you?