Last night at dinner the
discussion of my mother came up. My
mother is in an assisted living place and in her late 80s. Around the table we had my grandson who is
10, a handful of 20 and 40 year-olds, my ex-husband, his wife and my son’s
in-laws.
The reason I list all the
above is to show the wide range of ages we have going on.
My ex-husband asked how my
mother was doing. I used a phrase that
my brother uses (a baseball family, we are).
“She’s doing great for someone in the 9th inning.”
My grandson looked up at me
with concern. I said, “Well, Travis, I
am in the 7th inning (again, we are a sports family).” Without even blinking he said, “Naw, Grandma,
bottom of the 6th.” He then
went back to playing on his hand-held device.
I have been thinking about
this. We are all somewhere in this
journey called life. We can all look
behind and we can all look ahead. Hopefully
we do this with fond memories, and great future memories to come.
I have to constantly remind
myself that it isn’t the time we spend living, it is the quality of our time
here. I don’t believe it is as important
to be in over-time as it is to make each inning of our lives ones that have
meaning and worth.
And, these are my thoughts on
this beautiful Friday morning. You?
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