I am not talking about making lemonade from lemons. I am not talking about dealing with life’s little challenging. I am talking about when life truly hits you with a full-blown out catastrophe.
A 24-hour pity party with a box of chocolate won’t help. A glass of wine with a friend doesn’t cut it. And the sage old advice about life not giving you more than you can handle is pure bunk.
When the disappointment seems unending. When your sadness seems like a life-sentence, when there are no good solutions, how does one go on?
When it come to mistakes we’ve made, unfairness or the many injustices others have done to us, it really only hurts us if we obsess about it. Fostering hurts and wounds only keeps them alive for us. The other guy has moved on and more likely than not is not affected by his or her actions.
Whether you were over looked for promotions. Whether a fire or other natural disaster took your possessions, whether you experienced a loss of a friend or family member, the reality is life does continue.
I read and hear about such tremendous challenges people go through. I read and hear about where their lives are years later. So many are stronger, and although have the physical and emotional scars continue to keep going. Yes, some better than others.
I believe the reality is that most of us will experience situations that will question our faith, question ourselves, cause us to wonder if it really is worth it and have us wonder whether the world wouldn’t be better off without us.
If this sounds like a familiar story line, one just needs to have seen the Christmas movie called, “It’s a Wonderful Life.”
I have no answers or solutions. I have always felt it is not the trouble we get into that is important; it is how we handle it that speaks of our character and worth.
So, when life seems to kick you in the ass, whether you helped it or truly are a victim, accept it, own it, look for solutions and move on with your life. It is what survivors do.